Showing posts with label dads. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dads. Show all posts

Monday, November 10, 2014

3 Fantastic Children's Books For Veterans Day

(In 1921, an unknown World War I American soldier was buried in Arlington National Cemetery in a spot on a hillside overlooking the Potomac River and city of Washington. This location became the country's primary destination for the veneration of America's veterans. Similar ceremonies took place in England and France on that same date, November 11th, and the three focused attention on the ending of the fighting in World War I at 11am on November 11th, 1918 (the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month). The date became known as “Armistice Day” and was later changed to honor all who have served in American Wars. We now recognize it as Veterans Day.*)


A warm book, perfect for Veteran's Day


Sure, your kids are probably learning about it in school, but if, like me, you have relatives who fought for our country and you'd like to reinforce the importance of Veteran's Day, here are three great books you can share with your kids: 


Hero Dad by Melinda Hardin – In this story, narrated by a little boy, he explains that, “My dad is a superhero.” No, he doesn't wear a cape or carry a laser gun, but he does wear fatigues and carries a rifle. The son explains many of the day-to-day actions soldiers perform like driving a tank, jumping out of an airplane, and working long hours far away from his family. Aimed at kindergarteners and younger, the book contains bright, simple illustrations that show what the father is doing while he's away from his much-missed son. I love the tone of Hero Dad – you can feel the love and pride the boy has for his dad. This is a treasure for a child with a parent deployed because they'll be able to picture, in their minds, what their missing parent is doing and may help them feel closer to that parent while they're far away.



Another surefire Veteran's Day classic!



The Wall by Eve Bunting – A young father takes his son to the Vietnam War Memorial where they look to find the name of the boy's grandfather who died in the conflict. They search seemingly endless rows and rows of names before finally finding Grandpa's. This is a solemn book, yet it's not heavy-handed at all. You get a sense of loss, but there's love and honor here, too. The dad tells his son that, “I'm proud that your grandfather's name is on this wall” while the son agrees, but innocently adds that “I'd rather have my grandpa here.” The Wall is the perfect catalyst for parents and grandparents to discuss family members and friends who made the ultimate sacrifice for their country. It's for kids in preschool through perhaps first or second grade. 




Why IS the poppy the symbol of veterans?




The Poppy Lady: Moina Belle Michael And Her Tribute To Veterans by Barbara Walsh – Ever wonder why the Veterans give out red poppies at events and outside supermarkets? I did, too, until I read this book which tells the story of a schoolteacher from Georgia who was deeply affected when some of her students and friends became soldiers in World War I. Moina worked tirelessly to make the red poppy (seen by soldiers popping up amid the trenches, craters, and otherwise barren battlefields) as the symbol to remember and honor soldiers. honor the war veterans. This book is targeted toward kids in grades three through five and a portion of the book's proceeds supports the National Military Family Association's Operation Purple®, which benefits children of the U.S. military. 




Veterans Day offers us the priceless chance to share some of the history and sacrifices men, women, and their families have made for this country. Reading with them gives kids the chance to ask questions and explore the topic of war within the safe reaches of the people they love most. Don't miss this opportunity to share Veteran' Day with your kids!


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Saturday, June 14, 2014

6 Ways To Recognize Father's Day In Spite Of Your Dad

This Father's Day, many people will be celebrating the caring, wonderful men who were, and are, so influential in their lives. But what if, like many of us, a kind, affectionate paternal figure is missing? How can you get through Father's Day when you don't have a good one, or even one, around? Here are some suggestions:

  1. Acknowledge that your family is different. That's not good or bad; that's just the reality of the situation. All the wishing in the world will not change that. Try to let it go.
  2. If you did have a fantastic father who has died, you can take the time to celebrate and reminisce about his life. Celebrate what you once had, perhaps by visiting a place that was special to him, eating his favorite food, or taking out a belonging of his and really experiencing it via touch or smell.
  3. If you have a dad who is alive or, for whatever reason, from whom you are distant, understand that you are not alone. Many of us have family like that. For me, understanding that others feel like I do helps with loneliness this day can often bring on.
    My father-in-law:  a wonderful man! 
  4. Think back to your childhood and of a man or two who made you feel special and loved. It could be another relative or a friend who was there to listen and support you. Contact him and thank him for being there. You don't have to wish him a happy Father's Day, but you can thank him for his presence in your life, kind of a “thank you for being you” thing.
  5. If you are a dad, take time to think about what it means to be one and resolve (as you probably have already) to be the best one you can be to your kids.
  6. Do something special for yourself like buy yourself flowers or a special dinner. No matter what happened, you survived and are special.

Remember, too, that you don't have to celebrate Father's Day at all! It really is one of those greeting card holidays that serves commercialism more than individuals. Plus, by not celebrating, you're saving money that others are spending on this silly day.

Remember, this June 16th, CAN be just another Sunday in your life. It's your choice how you want to spend it.

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